Now if we don’t consider these things we know nothing about them. We must see clearly. Don’t get ”born” into things, don’t fall into birth. Know the workings of birth. Such thoughts as, ”Oh, I can’t stand that person, he does everything wrongly,” will no longer arise. Or, ”I really like so and so…”, these things don’t arise. There remain merely the conventional worldly standards of like and dislike, but one’s speech is one way, one’s mind another. They are separate things. We must use the conventions of the world to communicate with each other, but inwardly we must be empty. The mind is above those things. We must bring the mind to transcendence like this. This is the abiding of the Noble Ones. We must all aim for this and practice accordingly. Don’t get caught up in doubts.
– Ajahn Chah
“Sense Contact – the Fount of Wisdom”